Tuesday, November 19, 2013

Love Letters

Why should you give your lady a love letter? Because she needs to feel that you still love her even if after all the boring days that you two are a couple. If you want to write and her to read your sweet words, follow this guide:



1. Always be intimate

“I love you. I am who I am because of you. You are every reason, every hope, and every dream I've ever had, and no matter what happens to us in the future, everyday we are together is the greatest day of my life. I will always be yours. ” - Nicholas Sparks, The Notebook


Expound your words. Prove to her that you still love her throughout the years that you two are together. Use the memories that you two had throughout the years and use its nectar to write. And don't worry about not having the words, because inspiration will always come to you because you are writing for the love of your life. So don't worry and just write. 

Opinion Tip: Don't use "really" in your sentences. Language is made to gain the love of a lady. It's made them to see our hearts and mind. So don't use "I really love you" but explain why. She needs to understand you for her to trust you with all her heart. 

Opinion Tip: The corniest things are the sweetest things. Make it cute and romantic.




2. The Past, the Present and the Future


Write to her about the things you two did in the past. The fun memories and the problems you both had before. Like going to the Carnival, holding hands on the beach, cuddling, the day you said I love you to her, building forts with her. Think of all the things that you both did in the past then compare it to the present. Compare the love you felt the first time you met her and the love you both grasp through the problems. Then in your letter for her, write the future. The things that you want to do with her. Promise her the moon, promise her the sun, promise her the stars, and promise her that you will love her like the heavens, eternal.
You will see that in all the good times and the bad times, she's always there. In that way, you will find inspiration from within you for the was, is, and will with her.


2. This is a letter of appreciation

Remember that this is a letter of appreciation too. Don't just explain what kind of emotions you are feeling for that lucky lady but also explain her how did you love her. The kind of things that she comprises that made you a better man today. Write the things you love about her like maybe her cooking, her ability to make you laugh, etc. Let her feel that her efforts everyday are not invisible to you. 



3. Materials

Don't be cheap. Give her the best because she deserves it. But if you can't afford it's okay to write it somewhere. It's the thought counts. She needs to have the perfect letter. By stationary, yellow pad or notebook paper it's okay. Then spray your perfume to the letter then seal it on an envelope with her name written on it.


4. Structure

You need a format for your love letter. What's a house without proper rooms? It would be a mess! Be sure to recall what your English teachers were teaching you in English class like borders, etc. 




Example love letter:

My Dearest (insert name here),

There are so many things that I wanted to say to you through this letter. But it's not enough to explain my love for you. Since we were kids playing across the white and iridescent flowers, I knew that from the start that I will marry you someday. I remember when we were both 15 years old and I treated you ice cream. For me, you were like a morning sunlight while we were walking. Then before we parted ways, you said thanks and you kissed me on the right cheek. You think I was just cool about one peck on the cheek but on the inside my heart won't stop saying I love you. 

I remember all the problems we had then when we stole your parent's liquor. We got madly drunk that night and we kissed passionately on the hood of my car. It was the perfect night: on top of the mountain, seeing the luminescence of the stars, and you. But the day after that, your father found out and smacked me with a bamboo stick while you were either crying or laughing on the side. I don't really get it. It seems that I can always make you laugh even on serious problems.


Now, we're both in college with different paths, you're taking up nursing while I'm trying to be an artist, I just want to tell you that you will always be special to me. Even if we don't do those things anymore I know that we will find new things that we can do together. I will never give up on you. You were my first love and with that, you made me who I am and for that I will always love and take care of you. You inspire everything that I am now. I was, I am and will always be in love with you. You never fail to astonish me. Everyday there is something new about you that makes me love you more then the day before. You are mine and I am yours now and forever no matter what.


You are still the reason why I wake up in the morning,
El Buenaflor










Sunday, November 17, 2013

Pale and Sad















Pale and sad, that's what people describe me
I'm lost and can never be found
self loathing and hating reality
pushing people away was my comfort every time 

I look at the mirror, I call myself ugly


Getting constant depression is 
addicting like an ecstasy
it's either you kiss the pain or embrace it
I'm scared about the future which caused me anxiety
i just want to sleep,
and bury my body.











Earl Dignos


Name: Earl Dignos
Age: 16
About yourself: I like writing poems and inspiring a lot of people.

Favorite quote: "If you close your eyes you'll see darkness: but if you keep them closed and concentrate hard you'll see light." - Effy Stonem, Skins

Angel



The most beautiful girl I ever saw
Standing between the aisle of Judases
Her face that drops a thousand jaws with aws
And now my stoned heart is tied with laces


The only angel in a room of snakes
Vivid aggression in the chestnut floor
The angel fell with venom of mistakes
And the stoned heart doesn't care anymore



As he was sitting there, lonely with mere
Another diamond fell out the sky
His heart was suppressed with love and fear
But the brain may, but the heart cannot lie

He's happy as he holds her like a lyre
For she was an angel blazed with fire.





Tuesday, November 12, 2013

Dear Him






You know what i don't believe in the saying "Everyone deserves a second chance." because if you love someone you won't get tired of them. 

I always wanted to say that to him but I didn't get the chance to. Right now, I'm happy, I have moved on. Don't make them your world because once they leave you have nothing. You can move on. You just have to believe in yourself. You know you can, you just don't want to.

 I don't really like it when an adult says "You're too young for love." because no one is. Age doesn't define maturity. No one has the right to tell anyone they are too young for love. If you fall, you fall. You can't stop yourself.

I guess I can say that I'm only 14 and already, I have fallen in love. You guys might think that nah it's only puppy love. No, it's not. I want to know how I know? Because it's already been a year and a half and i still think of him. Even though he's a douche bag/asshole/lady killer. Yeah, yeah you might think I'm stupid but i can't help it. 

I  don't want to go by detail on our story because first of all there was no "Us". You can say our story was very tragic, for me, and complicated as complicated gets. He's not your usual guy. Trust me. Anyways. I fell for him and at that time i didn't know. He made me feel special and i loved it but one day he's gone. Just like that. I was so heartbroken that i just want to die. I have no appetite. I cry myself to sleep, Hear this, I can't even sleep! No one knew i was that depressed. Every night i wait for that single text or call but nothing came. Eventually i buried myself in books, That's my way to move on and i did and when i did he came running back. As a girl who just moved on of course i took him back. Oh come one, you would've done the same. Then it happened again and again and again. Like a cycle. I gave him three or four or even five chances because i have faith in him, that he'll change but I stand corrected. 



Dear Him,

Hi. I just want you to know that from to time still think of you, of how we could be a couple if you just change but I guess you're not ready to. At some point i thought that I could be the girl who would change you but I was wrong. I pray for that girl to come and steal your heart so you could stop stealing other's. You don't know how much I loved you.

 I have fallen in love with you really, really hard, and you were supposed to catch me but i guess you missed. Every day i wake up and you were the first thing that popped in my mind. I may be cold but you know why. I just want you to know that I still love you. Every part of me is denying it but there's a tiny part in me that's screaming "yes you still love him." I have a question to ask you though , What do you do if the one who broke your heart is the only one who can fix it? If you have the answer then maybe I'll forget about you but in the meantime, having you in my mind is a pleasure and a privilege. 




     Guest Writer #7: Tricia Yao

      Name:   Tricia Yao
      Age:14
"     Favorite Quote: "My thoughts are stars i can't fathom into constellations."
      About Me: I'm the typical Asian girl but i'm really a deep person. I grew up without a         mom and dad so i'm very independent. I have this other side that no one knows but me.
                                                                   







Sunday, November 10, 2013

Twisted Fate

No big word was ever easy. It's like the moon that seemed to be at the tip of your fingers yet million miles away from reality. But those are fantasy dreaming not unless you've gained the courage to stand, travel by space and finally have the sweetest taste of victory.
I can say,
I'm amazed.
I've dreamed.
I've traveled.
But I've never arrived.
My fate twisted raised to the bitterness of aftertaste. I'm broke, both by dreams and hope. But I'm never a loser. Though my dreams faded, my fate twisted, the fact that I'm still breathing was crystal clear.
Now, I can say,
I'm half drowned.
But I'll learn how to swam.
I will, I must, I should..

At first I see my fate coming in front of me. I was excited as hell, you can tell. COLLEGE. ENGINEERING. DREAM. FREEDOM. That's the words lingerin' in my head the moment I've seen the word ENROLLED printed on my first semester's college registration form. I murmured to myself, this is it! This is Paradise. My heart beats a million times each second when I first entered the gate with a post that says "No ID, No Entry". Now I can replaced that rule with a "No pain, No gain" policy. Expectations freshly rise by the people around me, the universities topnotch histories plus the challenge my mind urged me, brought me into real action. I know myself well that I can, though I'm not really good at logic and mathematics, I have tactics. I never believe in the power of cheating and deceiving, I lived by hard work and striving, hoping that someday, it will all payback on me. I make a lot of memories. Good memories, unforgettable memories, all kinds of memories. 

The first two years were rough yet fulfilling. The feeling you get knowing the fact that the quality of dream you're dreaming can be that on of the royalties? I can still remember that kind of heart imprinted to me. The boasting, discriminating and chin's upraising didn't miss the drama. My bad, I've realized after consecutive failing. I'm exhausted, I'm devastated. I know in myself I'm trying, But I guess trying isn't enough. When judgement time comes, I've risk to expect for signs and wonders in any way possible. If you're an engineering student, miracle chances are priceless, 3.0 is gold.

I failed to get the miracle I've expecting. That is the time I've decided. That is the time my faith and dreaming finally gave up, my heart scattered into million pieces. Feeling the feeling of being lost but never found. Aiming but never hitting the spot. Now I know how heartbreaking the feeling of wanting something big, working double hard, and yet in just a snap, letting it all flown and gone out of sight. As days passed by, I felt like I am the only one left over by the course side-effect. But as days passes by, so as my life. I know deep inside me that I need to keep up and left what's already left behind. I shifted. I can hear those mocking and judgmental teasing by people who once expected much from me. 

I wash crashed, I was underestimated, I was laughed by, but the hardest part, those people I've used to discriminate before, are the kind of people I'm now going to deal with. Yea, now I'm a total techie student which is the best option I thought would save my fall disgrace. Dealing with the side effect was hard, living to know that you're a quitter but having that heart of a winner. Enduring the pain and healing the wounds of losing the dreams you longed founded and lived. Hardest part of it was the unlimited asking, not to mention, excited asking of your old classmates what major are you taking for they don't know you already shifted boat and now sailing in a different water waves. Shame coated my whole personality. Disappointment branded me. Admitting my fall down kills me. seeing them everyday kills me more. I guess that's just how it meant to be. Moment I've decided, looking at the sign of giving up posted in a huge bulletin board, I realized some things aren't just meant to be. 

Though I know I can still breathe underwater, I don't wanna be taking risks anymore. I'm not in an Island of one to be selfish. I've had a chance, the opportunity, but I guess I'm off the hook. I'm closing that part of my story. I guess that paradise of me had withered in time.



Guest Writer #6: Nicca Remerata

Name : Nicca Remerata
Age : 21
About me : A bitch to those who exclusively deserve it. A simple woman who love the word variety.
Favorite Quote: Simplicity is beauty, still variety is a must see.