Letting go is a state of removing the flowing emotions. It's when you release every emotions in memories that you had with them. It's difficult but you have to do it for you to learn and for you to change. Letting go will not be easy but it's a requirement in life.
- They're not worth it
If they didn't fight for you nor try to communicate and fix everything then they're not worth it. You should realize that you are worthy of consistent love that someone would fight for and cherish every day. You don't deserve better because you deserve the best. So you should evaluate if you think you're not valuable because I know for the fact that you are. You just need the perfect individual to see it.
2. You're missing out
Instead of you having the time of your life being single you are totally missing out. Instead of you having the best time of your life with your friends you are whining or even crying in your bedroom. I know that only time can heal a broken heart but I just want to lay down the positive things that can be reasons for you to be happy again. Only time can heal a broken heart but the little things can cover it up until the heart can forget and love again.
3. You Learn
You can't experience life to the fullest if you're always happy. You need to get hurt sometimes for you to know the best of both world. When you get hurt, you learn and you change. You should learn to adapt and to learn from your mistakes and the mistakes of others because life doesn't stop for anybody.
4. Holding on keeps you from growing
Stop holding on to the things that doesn't care about you. If they dumped you and you think that you'll be back together one day then that thought will keep you in a box for you not to see other people that are willing to take care of you. It wouldn't make you a better person and it won't do you good. So stop holding on and keep moving forward.
5. Life is too short to be that downhearted
It's okay to be sad sometimes but too much depression can kill you. Don't cling to the things that doesn't cling to you. Why would you let something so replaceable make you unhappy? Life is too short for that. The secret to happiness is leaving all the negativity and replacing it with love.
6. You are enough
Too many people think that without them, their stay here in our world is nothing and their life will have no value. That is not true! News flash: when you let go of the things that make you sad, you will see life more meaningful and iridescent. You will be happy again and believe me when I say that you are more than enough for yourself. You don't need to another person to complete you because you are who you are. You just need to think more of the things help you to not sink in sadness.
7. Your perfect partner
You will see that when the right one comes, you will forget everyone that broke your heart. You'll just laugh while watching the stars with your love one and say that "the main reason why my past relationships didn't work out because of you" and you will be grateful to your past relationships for the lessons. Your partner will not be perfect like your Ex's and you are too. But as long as you can make him laugh and he can make you laugh, as long as you two are crazy for each other, as long as you two are fighting for each other side by side and as long as happiness is above everything then it will be an amazing ride. Yes I know that there isn't a perfect being. But there will always be one being perfect for you.
Holding on will not make something come back. In my experience, it actually pushes it farther away. You cannot go back and undo what’s done. You can only move forward.
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