Wednesday, October 30, 2013

The 7 Ways To Keep Her



                                                         



In a relationship, there is only one way to get in, many ways to get out, and there are infinite things that you can do when you're in it. It can be good or bad but if you really want it to last, read this.

7 WAYS TO KEEP HER 


  1. PRIDE IS NOT ALLOWED -When you're in a relationship, always remember to never let pride be first. Never let it control you. It  will never do you good. When you're in a fight with her just say that it's your fault. Because it's better   to lose the fight than to lose her.

    2.  IGNORANCE IS NOT AN EXCUSE -  If you have a habit of ignoring problems until they fade out, then you're going to have a bad time. Yes a lot of small problems can disappear by ignoring them but one day you'll see  that it's not the right answer. Never ignore her feelings. Don't be a rock around her, if she's having a bad time hug her or just talk to her and encourage her that everything's going to be okay in the end because if she's crying and talking to another guy about her problems then you're losing her.

    3.  SURPRISES - A girl is in a relationship because she wants excitement and thrill also not just love. These spontaneous things will keep the fire going. If you don't have the time then start with the small things. Girls really love it when you text them really long messages in the night when they're sleeping or better yet buy her flowers and food. But if you have the amount time then surprise her with adventures. Go to her house at midnight then call her up and invite her out in her pajamas. Maybe go around the city and around the park? To pig out on 24 hour fast food places? It's really up to you but these examples will make sure that the fire will never run out of spark. There are infinite things to surprise her. But find the way on  how you can tell her you love her by surprising her.

     4. DO NOT MAKE HER JEALOUS - If you think that's going to let her chase you more, you are wrong.  Making her jealous only just push her away from you. Because she will think that you're better off without her. If you really like her then you shouldn't make her jealous but you should make every girl jealous of her. 

    5. MAKE HER LAUGH - Humor is sexy. If surprises keeps the fire going, then laughter is the spark. Even if you're not that kind of good looking or sexy like those abs-models, she will fall in love with your ability to make her laugh. When she says "you're funny" then she's saying that "please give me more of that. I love it." if you keep on making her laugh, she will give you a space in her heart with the memories of you and her having a good time with your witty jokes.

    6. BELIEVE IN HER - Good or bad, you should always stick with her. Always be there for everything. Be there to inspire her, encourage her and never let her say bad things about herself. That is your job to be her hope in everything. If you do all of that, then she will never think that you're going to leave her. Because if you have your hand for her to hold, then she knows that it's you and her against the world.

     7. FIGHT FOR HER - "I will never stop trying. Because when you find the one you never give up." That quote is from Crazy, Stupid, Love. Love is all about fighting, sacrificing and trying. Let her feel that all of that by making her feel secure, happy and protected when she's around you. With that, keeping her will be easy.

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